Moshe Ndiki’s surrogate wants the babies back?

Surrogacy, while a remarkable medical advancement that enables individuals and couples to fulfill their dreams of parenthood, can also be fraught with profound emotional complexities. In the case of Moshe Ndiki, a prominent South African reality TV star, his surrogate’s struggle to come to terms with the reality of her role has come to the forefront of public discourse.

Reportedly, Moshe’s surrogate, whose identity remains undisclosed, has found herself grappling with conflicting emotions following the birth of Moshe’s twin boys. As the biological mother who carried the children for nine months, she has understandably formed a deep bond with them. However, the reality of the situation is that the twins belong to Moshe, and the surrogate is not their legal or biological parent.

Siphokazi Shandu, a longtime friend of Moshe’s, is said to be the surrogate in question. According to reports, Siphokazi has openly expressed her difficulty in accepting that the babies are not hers, even after carrying them for the duration of the pregnancy. This emotional turmoil has led to speculation that she may be attempting to “back-paddle” on her surrogacy agreement, potentially seeking additional compensation or even attempting to reclaim the children.

While the details of the surrogacy arrangement and Siphokazi’s specific feelings remain private, the situation highlights the complex interplay of biological, legal, and emotional factors that can arise in the context of surrogacy. The surrogate, who played a pivotal role in bringing Moshe’s dream of parenthood to fruition, finds herself grappling with the reality that the children she carried for nine months are not her own.

This scenario underscores the importance of comprehensive counseling and support for all parties involved in surrogacy arrangements, ensuring that the emotional and psychological well-being of all individuals is given due consideration. As the public discourse continues, it will be crucial to maintain a compassionate and understanding approach, recognizing the profound emotional impacts that surrogacy can have on those involved.

Recently, Moshe Ndiki has shared his personal insights on the profound experience of parenthood. In his candid remarks, Ndiki acknowledged the challenges and joys that come with raising children. He emphasized that parenthood has taught him the virtue of patience, which he had not fully realized until he became a parent.

Ndiki’s experiences reflect the emotional rollercoaster that many parents endure, as they navigate the delicate balance between overwhelming love and the anxiety that can arise when faced with the wellbeing of their children. His openness about the demanding nature of parenthood serves as a relatable and authentic portrayal of the complex realities that come with this life-changing journey.

Moshe plans a memorable event, while Siphokhazi acknowledges her attachment to the twins. Tune in at 19:00 for #LifeWithMoshe.

— Mzansi Magic (@Mzansimagic) February 18, 2024

Moshe Ndiki announces the arrival of his twins

South African TV personality Moshe Ndiki had social media buzzing after he announced the birth of his twins via an Instagram post shared on Sunday, 4 February. The beloved TV personality thanked God as he announced the birth of his twins. He took to Instagram and revealed the names of his tiny tots. He also revealed the gender of his babies.

“Thank you bawo [God]. Born healthy and living. Two boys: Thalanda Alexander Moshe Ndiki and Ntaba Lehlohonolo Siyolo Ndiki. This is my world,” he captioned an adorable photo of his little ones. Ndiki initially broke the news that he was expecting last year, March via a social media post. In the post, he revealed that he was expecting twins through surrogacy.

“My surrogate is pregnant. I’m going to be a dad … of twins! Today we went on our final ‘Can we tell people’ scan and I couldn’t be happier. What a journey, what a dream come true,’ he wrote.

Ndiki also shared that it was a “miracle” for him to become a dad — of twins no less.“I have no words over God’s mercy and love for me. The past two years I’ve tried to live and build a life where me and my child could be good, comfortable, safe, loved,’ he said.

He then gushed over his twins, saying: “My reason to live, my heart, my veins, my love, my twins, thank you, thank you for coming in at just the perfect time. The time you chose to say yes. I will love you till eternity.Moshe Ndiki seems to have his personal life on lock. Not only is he smitten over his newborns. He is also head over heels in love with his new partner Mzie, ZiMoja reported. The TV personality was previously married to singer, sangoma and reality TV star Phelo Bala but ended the marriage after two years.

According to the publication, the duo ended their relationship after they allegedly landed up in court following several alleged physical altercations between them in their then-North Riding home.

Moshe Ndiki opens up about his family struggles in Life With Moshe

In his new reality show, “Life With Moshe,” Moshe Ndiki tells everything about the real struggles of getting his family in front of the camera. 36-year-old TV presenter and actor, who’s quite the social media sensation, opens up about the nitty-gritty of family dynamics, life after divorce, and the journey of becoming a dad to twin boys through surrogacy.

Titled “Life With Moshe,” the show promises a genuine peek into Ndiki’s fresh starts and the beauty of black love within his circle of friends and family. But, let’s be real, it wasn’t a walk in the park convincing his family, who’ve never faced a camera, to embrace the spotlight. He spills the tea on the behind-the-scenes struggle of keeping everyone chill during shoots, admitting it was a whole different ball game from his previous TV appearances.

Fatherhood takes the spotlight as Ndiki reflects on how it taught him patience and the art of trusting the process. It’s not just a highlight reel; the show dives deep into the motions of his journey and relationships. According to Ndiki, “My show speaks to so many people and families.

From being a social media sensation to hosting TV shows, Ndiki’s journey is laid out for all to see, showcasing the pursuit of dreams and the gratitude he feels along the way.

The relatable vibe of his life, juggling work, family, and relationships, is set to hit home with viewers, making the show not just entertaining but also a bit of an eye-opener. Between spills and personal insights, Ndiki hints at a bit of drama for good measure. Plus, he drops some hints about upcoming TV gigs, like a show on Mzansi Magic channel dealing with broken families and solutions, voiceovers for a dating show, and something called “You Promised To Marry Me” on Moja Love.

Moshe Ndiki opens up on becoming a father to twin boys, finding new love and living for God

Moshe Ndiki is celebrated for his fun-loving and larger-than-life character. Through his work in the television industry, has demonstrated his versatility and adeptness at effortlessly transitioning between playful and serious roles.

Over the years, Ndiki has allowed South Africans to witness his personal journey unfold. Starting as a YouTuber, he has now established a successful career as a television presenter, actor, and content creator. With eight years of experience in the industry, he is now preparing to introduce his reality TV series, “Life with Moshe,” to the public on January 28th on Mzanzi Magic.

Ndiki currently is in a state of ease. an announcement he made in March last year, and living life with the love of his life by his side, a love he said he always knew existed.

The foundation of Ndiki’s contentment lies in his relationship with God, which occupies a central place in his life, particularly when it comes to family and love. As an openly gay man, he has always been open about his life, and now he is prepared to share his surrogacy journey with the public.

Ndiki explains that three years ago, he made the decision to document his life, partly because he didn’t want to repeatedly answer questions from people. He wanted his show to address all inquiries at once and shed light on the process of surrogacy, especially from the perspective of a black gay man opting for single parenthood.

“There were a bunch of people who wanted to know how surrogacy works, especially as a black gay man, that’s doing this as a single parent. It’s one of those things that people are going to be drawn to and asking about. So, instead of having those 11 conversations, let’s make it one.

“If I had it my way, the show would be called Love With Moshe because I have a lot of love and respect for my family, my friends, my partner, and the people who were involved in the surrogacy process. So it involves a whole lot of love. A whole lot of understanding from family members who didn’t know what surrogacy is,” he said, speaking about why he decided to shoot the show.

“I’ve always wanted to be a dad; whether I did it by myself or with a partner, it didn’t matter to me. As a result, even with one of the names that I gave my kids, I came up with that name when I was in Grade 10. I would dream about them and the type of upbringing I wanted to give them. I would plan the type of advice that I would give them and the type of discipline I would instil in them.”

He originally envisioned the show being called “Love with Moshe” because it reflects his deep affection and respect for his family, friends, partner, and everyone involved in the surrogacy process. The show encompasses a lot of love and requires understanding from family members who may not be familiar with the concept of surrogacy.

Ndiki had thoroughly researched surrogacy before embarking on the journey. He familiarized himself with the laws governing surrogacy in South Africa and carefully selected a fertility clinic for the process. He was aware of potential risks and challenges, such as scams or complications during the pregnancy, and he wanted to understand his rights and those of his surrogate.

Despite receiving praise for his natural on-camera presence, Ndiki remains his own harshest critic. He sees his time in the spotlight and the media industry as an ongoing work in progress, noting that he has much more to accomplish. He refrains from celebrating milestones and prefers to focus on what lies ahead.

Ndiki aspires to host a late-night show like Jimmy Fallon and also desires to be involved in production as an executive producer. With “Life with Moshe,” he has taken on the role of executive producer, as the show is produced by his own company, Moshe Ndiki Pictures.

His faith in God and leading a prayerful life have helped him cultivate patience and relieve the pressure of the industry. After hearing a sermon about embracing the different seasons of life, he realized that not every season would be his own. His relationship with God has provided him and his family with sustenance and support throughout his career.

Love is one of the pillars that ignites Ndiki’s soul, but he has faced challenges in the past. He recently finalized his divorce from his ex-husband, Phelo Bala, which was documented on the Bala Family reality show. However, Ndiki has found new love and happiness in his current relationship with his partner, known as Mzie. This relationship has taught him that his desires for love were never unreasonable or excessive. It has boosted his confidence and shown him that he deserves a partner who loves him fully and supports his dreams.

Ndiki values the maturity and effort invested in his current relationship, even if it were to end. It has been a transformative experience that has healed past wounds and reassured him that he is deserving of love, a family, and all the blessings life has to offer.

Since high school I’ve always wanted to be a dad: Moshe Ndiki speaks out

Moshe Ndiki is excited about the new phase experienced as a father, following the birth of his bundle of joy. The radio personality didn’t make any official announcement about the arrival of his babies, but sources close to him revealed it in the previous year.Speaking to Sunday World about his reality TV series Life with Moshe, the star talked about surrogacy.

“This whole thing of surrogacy is very much new to my family and a lot of people,” he said. It will be very interesting to see how we navigate this with love, compassion, and understanding, and the challenges of it all, like choosing the right surrogate. Moshe’s long dream of being a father has finally come true.

“Since high school, I’ve always wanted to be a dad. Even the name of my kids, I’ve had it since then. I’ve never shied away from it. Also being the favourite uncle, I love the way kids reason and think, which I’ve seen with my nieces and godson. Ndiki further revealed that it was a woman close to him that volunteered to carry his children.

“I ended up getting someone very close to me. She offered [to help] after she walked in on my call to the agency asking about the progress. We spoke about it [surrogacy] and I can say she was God-sent. I don’t think I would have chosen anyone else to be my surrogate mother.

“How we relate to each other and our family dynamics is very beautiful. The entertainer said the news of the twins shocked him, but it’s a blessing. I had budgeted for one child and now it is a double blessing from God.

Moshe Ndiki head over heels in love with his new bae, Mzie

Well-known South African news presenter, actor, and media personality Moshe Ndiki is celebrating an anniversary with his new lover Mzie.

The pair became Instagram official when Moshe showed off his hunky bae in early May, and since then the couple have been all loved-up and sharing the love on Insta.

Taking to his Instagram timeline on Tuesday, Moshe penned a sweet note thanking his partner for always making him feel loved.

“Thank you for being the best part of my day, well second to you know. I love you and I appreciate everything you do. You make me feel loved always and protect me from any harm. You’re my actual hero and I couldn’t be more blessed to have you ♥️ Nton nton versary Chomi @mzie_n_PS: do you realise we’ve been dating from the first day we met so we’ve been dating for as long as we’ve known each other. One day ndoze ndiyibalise how my heart was stolen by umjita wase Mount Aylif ,” he wrote.

His partner recently celebrated his birthday and Moshe melted hearts with his appreciation post.

“On this special day, I just want to express my gratitude for making me believe that the love I wanted to give and receive does exist. Thank you baby. Thank you for the way you look at me. It speaks volumes. I think uyandifuna wena. I want to thank your supportive, present and kind family. Never in my life have I experienced that type of warmth and honesty from a partner’s family. You’re made of love and from love and they give it so freely,” he wrote.

Serious Trouble For Moshe Ndiki

Moja LOVE’s presenter Moshe Ndiki is under public scrutiny following the recent You Promised To Marry Me episode. Ndiki was seen poking and provoking a guest of his show and things almost ended up getting physical.

The past Sunday (07 April 2023) saw scores of viewers and tweeps at significant raising concerns over Moshe Ndiki’s presenting skills. During a heated moment that erupted between Ndiki and one of his guests on You Promised To Marry Me. Ndiki was caught in an argument that saw him flying his hands onto a guest’s face.

In the past Moja LOVE has been called out for continuously promoting and perpetuating violence and Gender Based Violence on their programming. It started with one of their controversial show, Isencane Lengane, where Thando Msomi experienced abuse at the hands of her husband Siyacela Dlamuka on national television.

It appears history may be repeating itself after the latest episode of You Promised To Marry Me, where presenter Ndiki displayed aggressiveness and almost got into a fight with a guest. Security on stand-by had to immediately intervene in an attempt to diffuse the intense exchange, which almost resulted in a physical fight.

“Tonight on #YouPromisedToMarryMe Mbali’s boyfriend of seven years promised to marry her two years ago, but hasn’t introduced her to his family.” wrote Moja Love

Tonight on #YouPromisedToMarryMe

Mbali's boyfriend of seven years promised to marry her two years ago, but hasn't introduced her to his family. pic.twitter.com/zsu9R2G7zn

— MojaLoveTv DStv Channel 157 (@MojaLoveTv) May 7, 2023

Outraged viewers have threatened to write to the Broadcasting Complaints Commission of South Africa to report Moja LOVE yet again for turning a blind eye on violence on their programming.

“This is disgusting behaviour from Moshe” wrote Fighter Jojo

“I’m not sure which is more endearing: Moshe snapping his fingers on this guy’s face, or the fact that no one in the production/on the channel called out Moshe’s violent &disrespectful behaviour. There is no need for him to constantly demean/violate people by abusing his fame.” wrote Pad Goddess
Viewers were reminded of Ndiki’s violence streaks following his ex-fiance’s Phelo Bala exposing Ndiki as a violent person. Another incident was when Ndiki confronted social media blogger and YouTuber Musa Khawula outside of Johannesburg night club when the pair got into a physical brawl.

“Washo u Phelo kodwa ukuthi inesibhaxo esibi lensizwa…” wrote Nkunzi Ebomvu

Washo u Phelo kodwa ukuthi inesibhaxo esibi lensizwa…??

— Nkunzi Ebomvu ? (@iamthobani) May 9, 2023

Moshe Ndiki regrets defending Dr Nandipha Magudumana

Mzansi media personality, Moshe Ndiki eats the humble pie after defending Dr Nandipha Magudumana who is involved in Thabo Bester’s escape from the prison.

In a now-deleted tweet, Moshe slammed those who suggested that the doctor bought her luxurious cars by cooperating with Thabo aka the Facebook rapist who is a convicted murderer.

Being a client of the doctor, the actor wrote, “No, she received that as a gift from her husband, guys lets not perpetuate things that are not true. She was wearing blindfolds to her way there and those that know, know it was a gift from her husband…”

However, following her arrest, Ndiki took back his words and apologized.

The actor is also shocked at the turnout of event, realising that he defended blindly.

“It’s not that, it’s how she literally even cried and said she has no part in this, I fell for it. Akho kwa scary bro,” he wrote.

“Yho anazi nina indlela endidane ngayo… nam ndandweba nda deffenda, wathi umntu that I’m defending “I see God in you for defending me” kanti yaaaahhhhh. I don’t think ikhona into endakhe ndazisola ngayo njenga le ( besides breaking virginity yam wethu).”

She was my skin dr, the sweetest voice. So nice and friendly . Bendingayazi bethuna. https://t.co/S6Kt9cSEZR

— Moshe Ndiki (@MosheNdiki) April 13, 2023

Akasenqgenqge umanyoko ? https://t.co/yMfpodwuXY

— Moshe Ndiki (@MosheNdiki) April 13, 2023

Yho anazi nina indlela endidane ngayo… nam ndandweba nda deffenda, wathi umntu that I’m defending “I see God in you for defending me” kanti yaaaahhhhh.

I don’t think ikhona into endakhe ndazisola ngayo njenga le ( besides breaking virginity yam wethu ) ?

— Moshe Ndiki (@MosheNdiki) April 13, 2023

Moshe Ndiki spends quality time with his unborn twins

South African media personality Moshe Ndiki is expecting twins via a surrogate and he’s been a part of the journey every step of the way.

The father-to-be excitedly shared a video of his surrogate’s baby bump on his Instagram timeline with the caption, “Today is the first time I was with my surrogate and I didn’t cry when I had to go home. Sometimes I cry just speaking to my babies, I promise them the whole world, I don’t know where y’all are gonna stay.

“This love is the most purest, I’m in constant conversation with God to watch over them. My veins, my hearts, my loves … I adore you.”

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When announcing he was to be a father recently, Moshe spoke of how emotionally taxing undergoing the journey alone had been, but expressed excitement in anticipating their arrival.

“I’ve prayed for this miracle of just being a dad, and also this gift to myself on my 31st birthday, my mom, whose now a soon-to-be grandmother. I have no words for God’s mercy and love for me.

“The past two years I’ve tried to live and build a life where me and my child could be good, comfortable, safe, loved, and God said, ‘Because uphapha (you are forward), bamba (take) twins’.”

Moshe said he was grateful to his surrogate and egg donor for allowing his fatherhood dream to come to pass.

“It’s a funny story how that happened, but I thank God [for] my surrogate, my surrogate’s husband and family. My egg donor, thank you. This journey is not for the faint-hearted and it’s been documented well. For those waiting, for those trying, for those interested.

“Me and my surrogate have been calling each other ‘mzali we (parents of) twins’. It’s always surreal, but we prayed over that term cause pregnancy is tricky, it’s sensitive and scary. She’s my real-life hero.”

Moshe Ndiki spends quality time with his unborn babies

Moshe Ndiki spends quality time with his unborn babies.

The radio personality announced expecting a set of twins a few days ago, and he’s remained consistent with sharing updates about the kids whom he is expecting through surrogacy.

Moshe shared a video clip of himself kissing the surrogate mother’s pregnancy.

“Today is the first time I was with my Surrogate and I didn’t cry when I had to go home, sometimes I cry just speaking to my babies, I promise them the whole world, I don’t know where y’all are gonna stay. This love is the most purest, I’m in constant conversation with God to watch over them. My veins, my hearts, my loves… I adore you,” he wrote.

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