Kayise Ngqula opens up on how she dealt with losing her husband
Former “Our Perfect Wedding” presenter Kayise Ngqula made headlines in 2019 after her husband, Farai Sibanda, and she were involved in a car accident, which claimed his life and left her severely injured, on June 16. At the time the couple shared a baby boy.
A little over two years later, the media personality will talk about her journey and how she dealt with the grief of losing her husband, on the award-winning SABC2 talk show “Motswako”, hosted by Sechaba Gqeba.
Taking to Instagram, she shared a snippet of the show with her followers. In the heartfelt caption, she wrote: “Wounded but not broken is what I like to call my experience with loss & grief. It is a part of my journey that I now get to tell with the utmost sense of assurance of passion with purpose.
What the telling of my story has yielded for many women like me and myself is one I can never thank God enough for. This is the WORK that only He could assign me to
“This week I speak to @sechabag on Motswako about how I went about finding my light after dark. Catch it on Thursday night at 20:30pm only on @sabc2.”
Executive producer Carol Bouwer took to her own timeline to share the same video and praised Ngqula for speaking so candidly during the taping of the show.
Bouwer wrote: “The loss of a loved one is possibly the most inexplicable pain. The conversations I was having with my much loved team led to this episode.
“I have always loved my @kayise_ngqula and admire her ability to articulate pain that is sometimes present and sometimes a memory depending on the day.
Kayise Ngqula opens up about her life after losing her husband
Kayise Ngqula has once again opened up about losing her husband, Farai Sibanda. The media personality lost her husband in a car accident on 22 June 2019.
Kayise who is still dealing with grief about the loss took to her Instagram to share a snippet of her upcoming emotional episode of SABC2’s Motswako, speaking of how she’s learnt to deal with her grief.
“Wounded but not broken is what I like to call my experience with loss and grief. It is a part my journey that I now get to tell with the utmost sense of assurance of passion with purpose. What the telling of my story has yielded for many women like me and myself is one I can never thank God enough for. This is the WORK that only He could assign me to.” she wrote.
“I remain in awe of the God in me. That grace has brought me this far and each time I am asked to speak of my experience of grief and loss, I speak from a place that only He dwells in.
The Bring Back Your Smile have, Kayise Ngqula thought about how far beauty and benevolence stretch out in individuals’ lives.
Kayise said that in her own excursion, she finds that when she thinks back all things considered for sure is at present happening to her, it occurs to her that she has had the option to make it past a difficulty or mishap, “It was the point at which I completely wouldn’t trust in nothing else except for that elegance and leniency that I know is stood to me. I realize it is a lot simpler said than to be done however it is conceivable. And afterward abruptly I realize that don’t need to do a thing.”
How far we reach inside ourselves to expand our ability to recognize or get it is especially what I am generally worried about,
“Similarly as His promise has guaranteed, all that I will at any point require is accommodated. Not perpetually than I’ll require. Also, ‘Most likely goodness and benevolence will follow me the times of my life and I will abide in the place of the Lord everlastingly”… . That is it. It is well with my spirit. In occasions like this, I trust you also recall that it is well. ❤️”
Kayise was engaged with a mishap that guaranteed her better half’s life Farai Sibanda in 2019 on Father’s Day. The couple had been hitched for only 10 months when Farai passed on.
Kayise talked about the death of her better half exhaustively on her YouTube channel “Into the evening With Kayise”
Reviewing the game changing night after they had the mishap, Kayise said, “There was upheaval, the specialists, paramedics and any individual who should have been there to take care of us, it was then that I asked, ‘Where are we and what’s occurred?’ I was then educated by the specialists we’d been in an auto crash and that we were very harmed… “Yet I looked to one side, my better half was crazy, warding off any individual who contacted him … he would not like to be contacted and taken care of, he continued shouting my name … I then, at that point disclosed to him we will be OK.”
Kayise said she has never asked such a huge amount for something to occur. “I was informed that he was not doing approve yet as the week advanced, I continued being informed that he is improving. He is superior to yesterday, he is looking better today. At the point when he hears your name, he presses. I was informed that when he hears my name he would respond to such an extent that my dad in law and my brother by marriage addressed my Doctors that could I atleast be wheeled in my bed to him since they simply didn’t have the foggiest idea how could be dealt with save him and if there was an opportunity at all that assuming he heard my voice, we expected.”
Kayise was then taken to him and when she arrived, she advised him to awaken in light of the fact that she was unable to comprehend why he was not awakening. She was confident however on the 22nd of June, she heard a voice disclose to her that her significant other was gone. She says she thought she was dreaming yet it was her brother by marriage breaking the news that would imply the beginning of her existence without her significant other of 10 months.
Kayise is as yet recuperating from the torment of losing her significant other and she is accepting each torment that accompanied it and we are so glad for her. This is one of the numerous reasons Kayise is grateful forever and each challenge she is met with. We love this for our sovereign.
PICS: Kayise Ngqula reflects on her tragic car accident
Kayise Ngqula has taken to her social media to reflect on her car accident two years ago. This incident made her lost her husband as she shared how painful it is to lose someone that special to her.
Taking to Instagram, the star shared pictures of what the car they drove look like as she stated that she never knew she would make it home in one piece. Kayise stated that experience changed a lot of things about her and she never knew she could survive.
The media personality said it was like a miracle to be alive today.
“As you get ready to lay your head to sleep tonight, I want to remind you that you may have been “robbed, but you’re still rich”. Pictured here looking as beautiful as I did, I didn’t know that I would not make it home in one piece that night. Ever had something so bad happen to you that changed your life forever? You survived but you knew you would never be the same?”
Former Our Perfect Wedding host Kayise Ngqula finds love a year after husband’s death
Its been roughly two years after losing her husband in a horror car crash, former Our Perfect Wedding host Kayise Ngqula says she may have found a new love of her life.
The actress and her husband, Farai Sibanda, were rushed to hospital in June 2019 after the accident. Farai was in ICU for almost a week before he succumbed to his injuries.
The couple had married a year earlier and had an eight-month-old baby.
Fans were over the moon on Tuesday when Kayise took to Twitter to announce: “I think I’ve met my next husband”.
Excited fans were already planning the “biggest Our Perfect Wedding of all” and had ideas about how Kayise should celebrate the big day.
My Twitter has never been this busy. Y’all really love love neh? ?
— Kayise Nolufefe Ngqula (@KayiseNgqula) February 9, 2021
The star also hit back at those who said her bae may not be ready to walk the aisle, saying she has no regrets about how she feels.
“That’s fine. I still would have thought at this time that he might have been [my future husband]. Life is about living, and that includes having hits and misses.”
Kayise Ngqula finds new man after losing her husband to a car accident
It has been two years since Kayise Ngqula lost her husband in a car accident.
For the longest time, the presenter had it all, a husband and a new baby, and then her whole life changed when she and her hubby were involved in a car accident, which she survived and unfortunately, he passed away.
Since the accident, the media personality has been slowly opening up about her loss.
But it seems she is ready to move on if this latest tweet is anything to go by.
TV presenter Kayise Ngqula emotional on son’s first day at school
“I do not have the words to explicitly articulate my gratitude to God, our angel (Daddy would have been so so proud to see this day here on earth but I know he has a better view).
While parenting can be seen as a daunting task, especially if you lose your significant other and are left to do it all on your own, TV presenter Kayise Ngqula believes her late husband Farai Sibanda continues to watch over her and their son.
Farai died in a car crash in June 2019 while their son Zuko was a few months away from his first birthday.
The TV personality shared these sentiments in an emotional post on Instagram as she prepared her son for his first day of school.
And just like that … my baby boy is off to school tomorrow. Today was open day/meet and greet day and what a thrill and joy it was to see him transition into the next phase of his life so smoothly.
“I do not have the words to explicitly articulate my gratitude to God, our angel (Daddy would have been so so proud to see this day here on earth but I know he has a better view).
Though she knows she’s not alone, Kayise added that her family, particularly her mother who she believes is “God-sent”, was by her side during her parenthood journey.
Kayise Ngqula emotional on son’s first day at school – Daddy would have been so proud
“I do not have the words to explicitly articulate my gratitude to God, our angel (Daddy would have been so so proud to see this day here on earth but I know he has a better view).”
While parenting can be seen as a daunting task, especially if you lose your significant other and are left to do it all on your own, TV presenter Kayise Ngqula believes her late husband Farai Sibanda continues to watch over her and their son.
Farai died in a car crash in June 2019 while their son Zuko was a few months away from his first birthday.
The TV personality shared these sentiments in an emotional post on Instagram as she prepared her son for his first day of school.
“And just like that … my baby boy is off to school tomorrow. Today was open day/meet and greet day and what a thrill and joy it was to see him transition into the next phase of his life so smoothly.
“I do not have the words to explicitly articulate my gratitude to God, our angel (Daddy would have been so so proud to see this day here on earth but I know he has a better view).”
Though she knows she’s not alone, Kayise added that her family, particularly her mother who she believes is “God-sent”, was by her side during her parenthood journey.
“The best grandmother any child could ask for … thank you for walking this journey with us. When my husband passed, I didn’t know how I would make it past a day raising this child who was just eight months old at the time.
“We are a product of your prayers too, my supporters thank you for all the times you called out our names loudly in prayer. These are the results! Ngiyabonga Jehovah, Smakade.”
As the reality checked in that her son is growing up, the budding actress expressed her excitement at taking him to school.
Touching messages pour in for former #OurPerfectWedding presenter Kayise Ngqula
Words of encouragement pour in for former #OurPerfectWedding presenter Kayise Ngqula. Mental illness is one of the illnesses that are not understood by black people. We always feel like witchcraft is involved especially if it came out of nowhere. Mental illness differs just like any other disease. Some cases are not severe just that we are not used to them.
Kayise Ngqula is one of the celebrities with the most heartbreaking stories. Having lost her husband just months after getting married. She will feel the pain she felt. It will creep out of nowhere when she least expects it. And her being a celebrity doesn’t help because they are constantly bullied so much that it leads to depression.
She posted pictures of herself while in bed and expressed how she suffered from anxiety. “Today has been one of those emotionally tough ones… my anxiety is properly shot. I’ve done all I can in the past few months to work on feeding my mind with all the positivity I can ( and I intend to continue) but today was hard.
From being worried about a loved who is fighting the virus to hearing the news of loss of a loved one of someone I care about… it is dark but we will find light again. My only wish is that once we do we never allow anything to ever take away the joy of knowing that we overcame. Goodnight… stay blessed. Keep safe ❤️??”.
Touching messages pour in for former #OurPerfectWedding presenter Kayise Ngqula
Words of encouragement pour in for former #OurPerfectWedding presenter Kayise Ngqula. Mental illness is one of the illnesses that are not understood by black people. We always feel like witchcraft is involved especially if it came out of nowhere. Mental illness differs just like any other disease. Some cases are not severe just that we are not used to them.
Kayise Ngqula is one of the celebrities with the most heartbreaking stories. Having lost her husband just months after getting married. She will feel the pain she felt. It will creep out of nowhere when she least expects it. And her being a celebrity doesn’t help because they are constantly bullied so much that it leads to depression.
She posted pictures of herself while in bed and expressed how she suffered from anxiety. “Today has been one of those emotionally tough ones… my anxiety is properly shot. I’ve done all I can in the past few months to work on feeding my mind with all the positivity I can ( and I intend to continue) but today was hard.
From being worried about a loved who is fighting the virus to hearing the news of loss of a loved one of someone I care about… it is dark but we will find light again. My only wish is that once we do we never allow anything to ever take away the joy of knowing that we overcame. Goodnight… stay blessed. Keep safe ❤️??”.
