A Mzansi lady in a social media post has shared her thoughts about envy.

According to this lady, envy is such a dangerous emotion adding that people are envious of things they know nothing about.

The post she made reads;

“Envy is such a dangerous emotion….people are envious of things they know NOTHING about.”

Envy is such a dangerous emotion….people are envious of things they know NOTHING about.

— STAR GIRL (@ms_oh_tee) April 5, 2021

Some reactions from other social media users about the post are;

@puseletso_H – Envy/jealousy are natural human reactions how you go about them makes it dangerous. This is like saying anger is dangerous when in fact it’s normal to be angry but how you Express your anger could be dangerous

@Tshego_Elane – Like zero clue. Ppl dont even know your story, your struggles and your setbacks.

@KnownAssBee – you really spat.

In another post, another lady used the same medium to share an inspiring message to all ladies around the world.

According to this lady, the only advice she can give to younger ladies is that they should build their lives and communities outside of men.
The post she made reads;

“My only advice to younger women would be to build their lives and communities outside of men (romantic partners). Men cannot be your identity. Sometimes the love you think you need from men is found in friendships. No one will love and ride for you like your good friends.

I’m not saying don’t date and don’t fall in love. Intimate relationships and needs are important and valid. I’m saying these should not be your core identity or a reflection of your worth as a person.”

My only advice to younger women would be to build their lives and communities outside of men (romantic partners). Men cannot be your identity. Sometimes the love you think you need from men is found in friendships. No one will love and ride for you like your good friends.

— Chantelle (@Chant_ella) April 4, 2021

A lady has sparked a debate on social media with her latest post she made.

This lady from South Africa made a post about relationships and according to her, the fact that a lady tells a guy what her ex-fiancees put her through won’t stop the guy from doing the same thing.

The post has garnered some overwhelming number of views from social media users with some agreeing with her and other disagreeing with her.

The post she made reads;

“Telling a guy what your ex’s put you through won’t stop him from doing the same”

Telling a guy what your ex’s put you through won’t stop him from doing the same…

— You’re doing amazing sweetie (@JackiieTarin) March 24, 2021

Read some comments below;

@TKwazi – He might even think you’re resilient

@tapsshore – Doing the same isn’t good, atleast he should do worse
@mizsbosh – You won’t ever find me talking about past relationships. He doesn’t care.

@Deeks_Geek – You’re just him ammunition to finish you off cause now you’ve told him your triggers

@melanindokter – you find that sometimes it gives him ideas of how he can do worse.

@just_mangwe – Man this will only make him understand how much bullsh*t you can tolerate. Ayy girls you can do better man.

@sykotiq_chwk – It just might, coz I’ll add “I wanted to ring his balls” at the end of each sentence

@Pearl_Mahlati – Once told my ex side nigga what my boyfriend did. He then did the same thing thinking was gonna stay, i blocked him same time his now crawling for closure andizi