Mpumelelo Mseleku ‘BANNED’ from seeing his 3 kids with ex-wife… she is now having tlof tlof with another man!

The drama surrounding polygamist reality star Mpumelelo Mseleku and his ex-wife, Vuyokazi Nciweni, continues to unfold, with Mseleku alleging that Nciweni is keeping his children away from him.

Mseleku, who rose to fame on the popular reality show “Uthando Nesthembu,” has been vocal about his desire to maintain a close relationship with his children, despite his separation from Nciweni. The couple, who were married for 10 years, have three children together.

However, Mseleku claims that Nciweni has been preventing him from seeing his children, a situation that has left him feeling hurt and frustrated.

“I’m hurt because I’m not seeing my children. I don’t know what’s going on. I’m trying to understand why she’s doing this,” Mseleku said in a recent interview.

Mseleku’s allegations come just weeks after Nciweni married another man, a development that has further complicated the situation.

The reality star has been open about his desire to co-parent with Nciweni, even after their separation, and has expressed his willingness to work together to ensure the well-being of their children.

“I’m not trying to cause any drama,” Mseleku said. “I just want to see my kids. That’s all.”

Nciweni, however, has not publicly responded to Mseleku’s allegations.

Mpumelelo Mseleku’s ex-girlfriend Vuyokazi gets married

Popular South African polygamist, Musa Mseleku’s son Mpumelelo has lavished his ex-girlfriend Vuyokazi Nxiweni with love and well wishes after she recently tied the knot.

Vuyokazi, who has two children with Mpumelelo and broke up with him earlier this year, took to her timeline on Sunday to announce she was officially off the market.

The reality TV star shared images from her lobola ceremony with the caption “a promise kept”.

Reacting to the news, Mpumelelo told the publication he was happy to see Vuyokazi move on.

“I’m happy for her. May God be with her. God is good. God loves his children. He saw what she wanted and blessed her with marriage,” he said.

In a recent episode of his family’s reality show Izingane Zes’thembu, Tirelo asked Vuyokazi whether she would have stayed in the relationship had Mpumelelo kept his promise to make her his first wife, and she responded “yes”.

Mpumelelo has only one girlfriend, Tirelo, with whom he has a one-year-old baby.

Previously shedding light on navigating polygamy, Mpumelelo said he was following in his father’s footsteps.

“I got an opportunity to showcase what I do. How to structure polygamy and make people understand you don’t start polygamy when you are old. You have to start it now and grow with it to understand the dynamics. It’s not forced. It’s something I was raised in. People are failing to understand that,” he told TshisaLIVE.

Mpumelelo said having witnessed his father, who has four wives, smoothly run different relationships, he knew how to do the same for his growing family.

“What I learned from my father is to always be truthful, humble and respectful, and know how to apologise.

“In Zulu we have a saying that a person does what they witnessed from their father when growing up. It’s like someone who grows up in a family where they have a taxi business. A person who grows up in such a home would never turn down that business.”

Inside Mpumelelo Mseleku and Vuyokazi’s baby shower

Popular Mzansi polygamist, Musa Mseleku’s son, Mpumelelo, and his girlfriend Vuyokazi Nciweni are expecting a baby boy.

The Izingane Zes’thembu star had a baby shower where they revealed the gender of their precious cargo.

The pair announced they were expecting their second child in August, weeks after Mpumelelo’s second girlfriend Tirelo welcomed their first child.

“We can’t wait to meet you little king. Lol, when I found out I was having a boy I cried. Ebantwaneni uThixo undibusisile kakhulu. I want to give a special thanks to my best friend @thandilekonco for this amazing baby shower. I love you so much. I will never forget this special day,” she wrote.

Speaking on how fatherhood changed his life, Mpumelelo said he changed his ways and focused on setting things right for his family.

“Becoming a dad changes you. You have to change everything. From the way you carry yourself and the stuff you usually do. You understand you are a family man now and your children are looking up to you.”

On his family’s reality show Izingane Zes’thembu, Mpumelelo reveals how he navigates polygamy.

“I got an opportunity to showcase what I do. How to structure polygamy and make people understand you don’t start polygamy when you are old. You have to start it now and grow with it to understand the dynamics. It’s not forced. It’s something I was raised in. People fail to understand that,” he told the publication.

Mpumelelo Mseleku opens up on polygamy at a young age

Mpumelelo Mseleku opens up about being a polygamist at a young age. The 22-year-old is the son of the famous polygamist, Musa Mseleku who has four wives. The young man continues his father’s legacy as he has two girlfriends, Vuyokazi Nxiweni, who is expecting their second child, and Tirelo, who recently welcomed their first baby together.

I got an opportunity to showcase what I do. How to structure polygamy and make people understand that you don’t start polygamy when you are old. You have to start it now and grow with it to understand the dynamics. It’s not forced. It’s something I was raised in. People are failing to understand that.

Mpumelelo further revealed things learnt from his father. What I learned from my father is to always be truthful, humble and respectful, and know how to apologise.”

“In Zulu we have a saying that a person does what they witnessed from their father when growing up. It’s like someone who grows up in a family where they have a taxi business, a person who grows up in such a home would never turn down that business. Mpumelelo says polygamy is a gift and one most yield as instructed by the ancestors in other to avoid mistakes.

“Polygamy is a gift. You cannot get into polygamy if you do not believe in your ancestors, otherwise, it could get hard for you. You don’t just agree to do polygamy. It’s something that has been done by our ancestors before. If you don’t do as you are told, they will cause you to make mistakes. That’s why most people who don’t have the gift, they end up having a lot of children with different baby’s mothers.

Mpumelelo Mseleku and Tirelo introduce their bundle of joy

Mpumelelo Mseleku and Tirelo are parents to baby Singabakho Mcebokayise Nhlanganiso Mseleku. The bundle of joy arrived in June 2023, but his parents decided to open an Instagram account for him this month.

Photos detailing his journey from when he was conceived till he was born were shared on the new account with over 4,000 followers. The parents introduced their son by revealing his name a few days ago.

“I am Singabakho Mcebokayise Nhlanganiso Mseleku. In August of this year, the pair announced that they had joyfully welcomed their first child together. Tirelo took to her Instagram stories to share the heartwarming news of their baby’s arrival.

In a touching photo, Kale proudly displayed their newborn’s tiny foot, revealing that the little bundle of joy was born on the 16th of June at 22:50. The baby weighed a healthy 3.414 kilograms at birth.