Muvhango actor Dingaan Mokebe (James) dishes out dating advice – What women should do and not do
Muvhango actor Dingaan Mokebe (James) dishes out dating advice
South African actor and media personality Dingaan Mokebe (ka Khumalo) has advised women not to be modern if they want to be married to men who conform to the traditional roles of being providers and protectors.
The talented actor, well known for portraying James Motsamai on SABC 2 soapie Muvhango, said this while dishing dating advice to women. According to him, you cannot be a modern woman and expect a good relationship with a traditional man.
He counselled women who want to be modern to look for modern men to ensure that the relationships work with no friction.
In a video posted on his Instagram account, the Muvhango actor said,
“If you want a guy who can provide, protect, secure, who can make sure you have clothes, petrol, food and everything, that’s a traditional man. Then how do you come and want to be with a traditional man when you want to be a modern woman?”
“If you want to be with a traditional man you’ll have to be a traditional woman. If the man has to provide, protect, secure, make sure that everything is taken care of then that’s a traditional man. This simply means you need to be a traditional woman. This is a woman who can cook, clean, take care of the kids and do all the things that a traditional woman would do, that’s only fair,” Dingaan continued.
“But if you want to be a modern woman, it means you need to be with a modern man. Don’t expect a man to provide, protect, secure and do all those things. You need to be with a guy who can ask you for airtime, who can ask you for petrol money, ask you for rental or car instalment money. That’s a modern man. But if you want a guy who’s going to provide everything for you it means you’re looking for a traditional man which simply means you’ll have to be a traditional woman,” he said.
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