Mihlali Ndamase spills the beans on how she lost her V!rginity
A lot of her fans have for a long time been waiting for such content because they were curious of whether if she is sealed or open, Lol!
Mihlali Ndamase took a trip down memory lane and gave the people what they wanted when she got candid about losing her v!rginity.
The popular vlogger and influencer shared the story of her first time with her inquisitive fans in the latest vid on her YouTube channel.
“One time I flew to Durban to go visit him and uh it happened. I don’t how or what to say about how I felt. It was really sore, it was painful as f***. Also, this guy was really tall, he was huge, so it was like… big.
“And I also feel like, during the whole thing there wasn’t necessarily any attempt to help me feel comfortable. So it was obvious the experience was very painful, it was excruciating.”
Mihlali said everything was tense because she wasn’t really comfortable but she “sucked it up” because the dude was her man and he’d previously spoken about how he wasn’t trying to be in a relationship that didn’t have “intimacy” or s.e.xual intercourse.
She said in retrospect, she realised she was “under pressure” because she liked the guy so much, but she will make sure to tell her children never to succumb to that kind of pressure for anyone.
“This is something that will also help me one day when I have kids to have a conversation with my daughter to say ‘don’t compromise yourself to cater to somebody else’s needs.’ Not to put herself in a situation where she isn’t necessarily comfortable.”
Watch the video below: